Monday, December 12, 2011

Homecoming for the Holidays!

By: Nichole Schlais

When you hear the word homecoming, does it bring memories of fall, football and friends? For me it means walking through a hanger filled with spare parts, making my way towards the walls of posters and past a few chairs. I can’t sit down, no matter how long it may take, instead I head to the tarmac, making sure I keep my toes on the red line, just not crossing over it.

My eyes go back and forth between my watch and the sky. In my mind I recall the 3 postcards, 25 letters and over 75 emails I received. I smile at the 11 DVD’s sent through the USO of him reading countless books to the kids. I’ve waited 187 days, 6 hours and 14 minutes for this day (not that I was counting). Time is ticking by in what feels like hours, rather than seconds. I see the new babies, the husbands, wives and parents, who like me, would rather watch the sky than sit and wait.

Out of the corner of my eye I see it, my Christmas wish. I feel goose bumps as the hanger erupts into cheers and every free hand waves the Stars and Stripes. The plane lands and slowly taxi’s back to the waiting while it taxi’s back to the terminal. It seems to take forever, but when I step closer to the red line I can see it, just a few more minutes and it will be over, at least for a little while. The butterflies in my stomach are having a field day, we’ve had almost half a dozen of these in the last decade and yet I still get nervous every time.

As the plane rolls to a stop, the ground crew moves into action. Trucks for luggage and the ladder arrive. Then they all back away, including the ground crew. Are you kidding me??? Apparently the pilot was unsure of the parking job and wanted another crack at it. Note to pilot: Treat it like it was stolen, park it and let the hostages off! Once the plane is parked, blocks are laid, steps are moved in and the door opens. Now the hunt begins, the windows are useless at seeing where he is, so I must wait and hold my breath as each person deplanes. I just want to scream “HURRY UP” but instead I just move closer, the red line only really counts during take-off and landing, and as the door to the plane is opened, the family mob moves forward. New dads and mom deplane first and then the rest of the passengers, all clad in dessert camo. Nothing like searching for my hero, dressed like all the other hero’s. My eyes are scanning the ladder, the crowd, looking everywhere as I move closer to the plane.

Then we make eye contact and without actually flying I was in his arms in a matter of seconds. It took a few minutes to notice the roses he was carrying or remember that I had Heather there taking pictures. I just held him tight and let the tears flow. I pulled away to get another good look. He was thinner and his summer tan was still hanging around, but he was over 7,000 miles away and still remembered to bring me flowers. I hugged him again and know that I had the world’s largest grin on my face. We exchanged small talk, I introduced Heather and we waited for his luggage. I only let go of his hand long enough for him to get his bags.

187 days since I’d stood on this tarmac saying good-bye, 187 days since I’d seen his smile, 187 days since we’d had a face to face conversation. 187 days that I had to explain that daddy’s work is different from other daddy’s. 187 days between my kiss good-bye and my kiss hello.

This holiday I am thankful for my real life homecoming that beats anything that Hollywood could ever produce.

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

A Whale of a Makeover!

Whale of a Sale committee is proud to announce a new community outreach program, Whale of a Makeover.

The Whale of a Sale committee is partnering with Family Support Services to complete an extreme room makeover for Elizabeth, a 17 year old girl transitioning out of foster care. Elizabeth’s parents passed away two years ago, and without any other family members to take care of her, she was placed in foster care. It is time for Elizabeth to move out on her own, the Junior League of Jacksonville will be making over Elizabeth’s bedroom and bathroom!

We need your help! A wish list has been provided below, and we need league members to donate items to fulfill her wish list. These donations will count toward your Whale of a Sale quota. If you need to schedule a pick-up or a drop-off outside of the regularly scheduled Whale of a Sale drop-off shifts for items for this project, a member of the Whale of a Sale community outreach subcommittee would be glad to help! Donations can be quota items in great shape, new items (if you choose to purchase an item from the list please include a gift receipt in the event that this item is received in duplicate; we will use the store credit to purchase another item from her wish list); or cash donations (that will be credited towards your quota).

We look forward to working with you all to support this exciting new initiative. For more information or to schedule a pick up or drop off please contact the Whale of a Sale Community Outreach vice chair Erin Chamberlin at Erin.Chamberlain@fmr.com or 352-514-3750.

Elizabeth's Wish List

Bathroom: Island/Beach theme

o Light blue paint for walls with a wall paper border that has palm trees, water, sand etc on it.

o Towels- blue, sand or beige color (no white or red towels)

o Shower Curtain- Palm tree. If this is not possible then solid white

Received: solid white at drop off – still looking for palm tree

o Stainless steel/silver curtain rod holders with plain balls or squares

o Rainfall shower head

o Blue shag carpet bath mats

o Matching trash can, toothbrush holder, soap dispenser , Kleenex and Q Tip holder- prefers the stainless/silver

o Vanilla mint toothpaste and electric toothbrush

o Shampoo/soap rack for inside shower for storage

o Loofa sponges

o Bath & Body Works products in vanilla, cocoa butter or suntan scents

o Hair straightener

Received: White hair straightener in box

o Square storage bins to hold products for under the sink (no preference in color or material)

o Toilet plunger and toilet brush cleaner

o Laundry hamper

Received: Blue laundry basket, need hamper still

o Full length mirror to hang on the door

o Stainless steel/silver towel racks and toilet paper holder

o Air freshener- vanilla

Received: Vanilla reed diffuser

o Magnifying face mirror (for eyebrow plucking)

o Paintings of palm trees/beach scenes

Received: Various paintings of beach scenes and palm trees

o Shower radio

Bedroom: very modern/contemporary

o Light beige paint for walls

o Queen size bed (dark brown/chocolate color, no posts)- cushioned head board

o Dark and light blue light weight down comforter

Received: White down comforter (possibly need a duvet)

o Blue sheets

o 4 sleep pillows and 2 accent pillows

Received: A few accent pillows

o 2 end tables, same color as bed to match

o Lamps on each end table, silver with white shades (modern)

Received: Two lamps, one beach and one modern

o Long 6 or 8 drawer dresser

o Flat screen tv to put on top of the dresser (no mirror)

o Large picture of an island or beach, possible palm trees or hammock for above the bed

Received: Various paintings of beach scenes and palm trees

o Dark chocolate photo frames for personal pictures to hang on the walls

Received: Various photo frames

o Lap top

o Dark chocolate desk with swivel chair and matching file cabinet

o Shelves to hang on the wall above the desk

o Silver lamp for desk

o Silver modern wall clock

Received: Silver and dark brown wall clock

o Alarm clock for night stand

o Stereo

Received: Stereo/cd player

o Silver curtain rod

o Light blue or beige modern curtains (darker then the walls)

o Shoe rack for bottom of closet

o Ceiling fan with palm leaves

Closet: Small stock of items for job and college interviews

o Flats or sneakers (no heels) in size 9

o Black trousers/pants - size 9

o Work appropriate blouse - size Medium