A Whale of a Makeover!

The Junior League of Jacksonville added a new community component to our 21st annual Whale of a Sale - with a Whale of a Makeover for one teen transitioning from foster care!

For over 20 years, the Junior League of Jacksonville’s Whale of a Sale fundraiser has brought the community gently used, quality merchandise at low prices while raising much-needed funds for JLJ’s community projects that benefit children and families in Jacksonville. This project has been a great opportunity for JLJ volunteers to add a positive community impact component to the event.

For the first time, JLJ members are using items, including furniture, decorative items and clothing, donated to the annual Whale of a Sale fundraiser to decorate the new apartment of Caneilua Barber, an 18-year-old woman transitioning out of the foster care system.

Carneilua, or CC as she prefers, came into foster care at age 16, following the death of her mother, and aged-out of care when she turned 18 in October 2011. She attends Drop Back In Academy. She plans to attend college to study criminal justice and aspires to be a judge. As a young adult transitioning out of foster care, CC is receiving services through the Independent Living program offered by Family Support Services of North Florida (FSS).



League members started at 7am on Sunday the 19th painting and decorating CC's apartment, getting it ready for the Big Reveal.

At 4:30 Sunday afternoon, the reveal came!

"I'm so excited! Its gorgeous!" said CC, "This is way past what I imagined and what I ever thought was going to be in here!"

"We are so excited to be a part of giving CC a room that reflects her personality, as she moves in to her first apartment," said Becky Patel, Junior League President. "She is a lovely girl and we're excited for her as she begins this new phase of her life."

Interested in seeing what Whale of a Sale can makeover in your house? Don't miss out - join us at the Preview Party, Friday, Feb. 24th! Tickets are on sale now.

More Makeover Pictures!





Special thanks to Corporate Suite Shoppes and Cort Furniture for their help in making over CC's apartment!

Check out the news coverage on the makeover:

Update: Whale of a Makeover

We will be completing an extreme room makeover for Elizabeth, a 17-year-old girl transitioning out of foster care, and we need your help to fulfill her wish list! Any donations will count towards Whale of a Sale quota. Our recipient was specific on what she would like but anything that resembles the items still needed below would be greatly appreciated!

Please bring what you can to the drop off scheduled for this Saturday or to schedule a pick up or drop off, please contact the Whale of a Sale Community Outreach Vice Chair, Erin Chamberlain, with any quesitons at (352) 514-3750 or erin.chamberlain@fmr.com.

Bathroom: She would like an Island/Beach theme.

Shower Curtain- Palm tree
Rainfall shower head
Matching trash can, toothbrush holder, soap dispenser , Kleenex and Q Tip holder-
prefers the stainless/silver
Shampoo/soap rack for inside shower for storage
Square storage bins to hold products for under the sink (no preference in color or
material)
Toilet plunger and toilet brush cleaner
Full length mirror to hang on the door
Stainless steel/silver toilet paper holder
Magnifying face mirror (for eyebrow plucking)
Paintings of palm trees/beach scenes
Shower radio

Bedroom: She has very modern/contemporary taste.

Dark and light blue light weight down comforter
Lamps on each end table, silver with white shades (modern)
Large picture of an island or beach, possible palm trees or hammock for above the bed
Silver lamp for desk
Alarm clock for night stand
Silver curtain rod
Light blue or beige modern curtains (darker then the walls)

Homecoming for the Holidays!

By: Nichole Schlais

When you hear the word homecoming, does it bring memories of fall, football and friends? For me it means walking through a hanger filled with spare parts, making my way towards the walls of posters and past a few chairs. I can’t sit down, no matter how long it may take, instead I head to the tarmac, making sure I keep my toes on the red line, just not crossing over it.

My eyes go back and forth between my watch and the sky. In my mind I recall the 3 postcards, 25 letters and over 75 emails I received. I smile at the 11 DVD’s sent through the USO of him reading countless books to the kids. I’ve waited 187 days, 6 hours and 14 minutes for this day (not that I was counting). Time is ticking by in what feels like hours, rather than seconds. I see the new babies, the husbands, wives and parents, who like me, would rather watch the sky than sit and wait.

Out of the corner of my eye I see it, my Christmas wish. I feel goose bumps as the hanger erupts into cheers and every free hand waves the Stars and Stripes. The plane lands and slowly taxi’s back to the waiting while it taxi’s back to the terminal. It seems to take forever, but when I step closer to the red line I can see it, just a few more minutes and it will be over, at least for a little while. The butterflies in my stomach are having a field day, we’ve had almost half a dozen of these in the last decade and yet I still get nervous every time.

As the plane rolls to a stop, the ground crew moves into action. Trucks for luggage and the ladder arrive. Then they all back away, including the ground crew. Are you kidding me??? Apparently the pilot was unsure of the parking job and wanted another crack at it. Note to pilot: Treat it like it was stolen, park it and let the hostages off! Once the plane is parked, blocks are laid, steps are moved in and the door opens. Now the hunt begins, the windows are useless at seeing where he is, so I must wait and hold my breath as each person deplanes. I just want to scream “HURRY UP” but instead I just move closer, the red line only really counts during take-off and landing, and as the door to the plane is opened, the family mob moves forward. New dads and mom deplane first and then the rest of the passengers, all clad in dessert camo. Nothing like searching for my hero, dressed like all the other hero’s. My eyes are scanning the ladder, the crowd, looking everywhere as I move closer to the plane.

Then we make eye contact and without actually flying I was in his arms in a matter of seconds. It took a few minutes to notice the roses he was carrying or remember that I had Heather there taking pictures. I just held him tight and let the tears flow. I pulled away to get another good look. He was thinner and his summer tan was still hanging around, but he was over 7,000 miles away and still remembered to bring me flowers. I hugged him again and know that I had the world’s largest grin on my face. We exchanged small talk, I introduced Heather and we waited for his luggage. I only let go of his hand long enough for him to get his bags.

187 days since I’d stood on this tarmac saying good-bye, 187 days since I’d seen his smile, 187 days since we’d had a face to face conversation. 187 days that I had to explain that daddy’s work is different from other daddy’s. 187 days between my kiss good-bye and my kiss hello.

This holiday I am thankful for my real life homecoming that beats anything that Hollywood could ever produce.

A Whale of a Makeover!

Whale of a Sale committee is proud to announce a new community outreach program, Whale of a Makeover.

The Whale of a Sale committee is partnering with Family Support Services to complete an extreme room makeover for Elizabeth, a 17 year old girl transitioning out of foster care. Elizabeth’s parents passed away two years ago, and without any other family members to take care of her, she was placed in foster care. It is time for Elizabeth to move out on her own, the Junior League of Jacksonville will be making over Elizabeth’s bedroom and bathroom!

We need your help! A wish list has been provided below, and we need league members to donate items to fulfill her wish list. These donations will count toward your Whale of a Sale quota. If you need to schedule a pick-up or a drop-off outside of the regularly scheduled Whale of a Sale drop-off shifts for items for this project, a member of the Whale of a Sale community outreach subcommittee would be glad to help! Donations can be quota items in great shape, new items (if you choose to purchase an item from the list please include a gift receipt in the event that this item is received in duplicate; we will use the store credit to purchase another item from her wish list); or cash donations (that will be credited towards your quota).

We look forward to working with you all to support this exciting new initiative. For more information or to schedule a pick up or drop off please contact the Whale of a Sale Community Outreach vice chair Erin Chamberlin at Erin.Chamberlain@fmr.com or 352-514-3750.

Elizabeth's Wish List

Bathroom: Island/Beach theme

o Light blue paint for walls with a wall paper border that has palm trees, water, sand etc on it.

o Towels- blue, sand or beige color (no white or red towels)

o Shower Curtain- Palm tree. If this is not possible then solid white

Received: solid white at drop off – still looking for palm tree

o Stainless steel/silver curtain rod holders with plain balls or squares

o Rainfall shower head

o Blue shag carpet bath mats

o Matching trash can, toothbrush holder, soap dispenser , Kleenex and Q Tip holder- prefers the stainless/silver

o Vanilla mint toothpaste and electric toothbrush

o Shampoo/soap rack for inside shower for storage

o Loofa sponges

o Bath & Body Works products in vanilla, cocoa butter or suntan scents

o Hair straightener

Received: White hair straightener in box

o Square storage bins to hold products for under the sink (no preference in color or material)

o Toilet plunger and toilet brush cleaner

o Laundry hamper

Received: Blue laundry basket, need hamper still

o Full length mirror to hang on the door

o Stainless steel/silver towel racks and toilet paper holder

o Air freshener- vanilla

Received: Vanilla reed diffuser

o Magnifying face mirror (for eyebrow plucking)

o Paintings of palm trees/beach scenes

Received: Various paintings of beach scenes and palm trees

o Shower radio

Bedroom: very modern/contemporary

o Light beige paint for walls

o Queen size bed (dark brown/chocolate color, no posts)- cushioned head board

o Dark and light blue light weight down comforter

Received: White down comforter (possibly need a duvet)

o Blue sheets

o 4 sleep pillows and 2 accent pillows

Received: A few accent pillows

o 2 end tables, same color as bed to match

o Lamps on each end table, silver with white shades (modern)

Received: Two lamps, one beach and one modern

o Long 6 or 8 drawer dresser

o Flat screen tv to put on top of the dresser (no mirror)

o Large picture of an island or beach, possible palm trees or hammock for above the bed

Received: Various paintings of beach scenes and palm trees

o Dark chocolate photo frames for personal pictures to hang on the walls

Received: Various photo frames

o Lap top

o Dark chocolate desk with swivel chair and matching file cabinet

o Shelves to hang on the wall above the desk

o Silver lamp for desk

o Silver modern wall clock

Received: Silver and dark brown wall clock

o Alarm clock for night stand

o Stereo

Received: Stereo/cd player

o Silver curtain rod

o Light blue or beige modern curtains (darker then the walls)

o Shoe rack for bottom of closet

o Ceiling fan with palm leaves

Closet: Small stock of items for job and college interviews

o Flats or sneakers (no heels) in size 9

o Black trousers/pants - size 9

o Work appropriate blouse - size Medium

Coming Home

by: Jen Kinsella

“There’s nothing half so pleasant as coming home again.”
--Margaret Elizabeth Sangster

I am counting many blessings this year: my family, good health, wonderful friends, and a job I love. But I am particularly thankful that my family and I have “come home” to Jacksonville.

Two years ago, we moved to the Washington, DC area because my husband had accepted a two-year assignment on the Joint Chiefs of Staff at the Pentagon. While it was a great professional opportunity for him, I was sad to leave a city that I had grown to love and the many friends I had made while living here.

I joined the JLJ after moving here in 2007 as a way to meet new people and get involved in the community. Over the course of the next two years, I had the opportunity to volunteer for some outstanding community projects, like CARES, and I also made some wonderful friends along the way. When I was pregnant with my oldest son in 2008, four other FYAs were also expecting their first children. Those women and I became very close while we shared the joys (and aches and pains!) of pregnancy. We found support in one another as we anxiously awaited the arrival of our little ones – with our five children being born about 7 weeks apart (and two of us actually delivering on the SAME day!).

When we moved to DC in 2009, I was able to keep in touch with everyone - thanks in large part to Facebook, email and the work travel that brought me down here on a monthly basis. And when we found out last year that the Navy was bringing us back to Jacksonville, I was thrilled!

My husband and I have often asked each other, “What is it about Jacksonville?” “Why does this city feel like ‘home’ to us?” It isn’t perfect – there are so many needs in this community, but there is also so much potential. And as members of the JLJ we are charged with helping to make Jacksonville a better place for ourselves, our families and those less fortunate than us. So this Thanksgiving, let us all count our blessings and continue our work to improve this special place that we are blessed to call “home.”

Deep Frying Turkey 101

by: Jenny Fitzpatrick

We started frying a turkey when we decided we were tired of waking up at o'dark thirty to put a bird in the oven. Frying a turkey is much faster than the traditional baking (3-4 minutes per pound versus 15 minutes per pound), it frees up that coveted oven space for other yummy treats, and provides a tasty alternative to the bird that is basted hour upon hour. The only drawback is there are no drippings to be used to make turkey gravy, but that is a small price to pay, trust me.

If you are thinking of trying this alternative for turkey day this year, please be mindful of the following, no need to turn a happy holiday in to an episode of Rescue 911:

• Don't put too much oil in the fryer pot - If the cooking pot is overfilled, the oil may spill out of the pot when the turkey is lowered in. Oil can hit the burner and cause a fire. Follow the owner's manual to determine the proper amount of oil to use.
• Don't drop a frozen or partially thawed turkey into oil - Frozen or partially frozen turkeys placed into the fryer can cause a spillover and may result in a fire. Make sure your turkey is properly thawed and slowly lower it into the pot.
• Don't keep the fryer too close to structures - More than one-third of fires involving a fryer start in a garage or patio. Cook outdoors and maintain a safe distance from any buildings and wooden structures.
• Unattended cooking - Normally, we say a watched pot never boils. When it comes to deep fat fryers, an unwatched pot may very well burn your house down.

Another bonus - it gets your husband out of the house for at least an hour, depending on the size of the turkey.

No matter how you choose to cook your bird - just remember the most important part of the day - spending time (safely) with family and friends and being thankful for all that we have! Happy Thanksgiving!

(Photos: Matt Fitzpatrick fries the family turkey - like a pro!)

Dig A Little Deeper: A Classical Christmas

Come on out on December 3rd and support the Davis Performing Arts Center while attending the holiday recital, "A Classical Christmas." Mocktails will be served at 5:30 pm and the show begins promptly at 6:00 pm with dinner to follow.

The Davis Performing Arts Center is a non-profit organization in the Jacksonville area and is designed to provide inner city, underprivledged children a place to explore their talents in the arts. The performing arts center offers training in the art of theatre, dance and music while giving at risk youth an equal opportunity in the performing arts. To learn more about this organization, please visit their website at davisperformingarts.webstarts.com.

RSVP details are provided below.

Date: December 3, 2011
Location: 2839 West Beaver Street Jacksonville, FL 32254
Information: Performance starts at 6:00pm with dinner to follow. Tickets are $25 per person.
Contact Information: R.S.V.P by November 23 to Mary Davis Johnson at davisperformingarts@yahoo.com or call 904-303-3193

Dig a Little Deeper: JCCI - Jacksonville Community Council Inc.

Did you know that Jacksonville is home to a nationally recognized, nonpartisan civic organization, whose mission is to engage diverse citizens in open dialogue, research, consensus building, advocacy and leadership development to improve the quality of life and build a better community in Northeast Florida and beyond?

For more than 35 years, JCCI has been the place where community-minded people get together to explore issues of community importance, identify problems, discover solutions, and advocate for positive change. Our Community Studies, Implementation advocacy for study recommendations, and opportunities for public dialogue around critical issues of local interest have made an impact in every area of Jacksonville's Quality of Life.

JCCI Forward, is our initiative that seeks to engage men and women ages 25-45 in civic involvement and to prepare them for their future roles as community leaders. Forward is an ideal way to interact with city leaders, to develop community leadership, and to build a network of friends and associates who all share the common goal of improving our community.

Junior League of Jacksonville members continue to participate with JCCI and Forward to continue the impact of their community-work. Check out Forward at an upcoming event:

Oct 6- JAXFacts:Innovators in Early Education

Duval County has 50,000 children ages 1 thru 3. Five thousand of these children, without intervention, will start the first day of kindergarten (at age 5) unprepared for learning! Forward participants, 25-45 years of age, are the parents of these children and may or may not know the options available in our community…JCCI Forward presents 8 local innovators who are ready to make an impact in our kids future. They will be sharing about their programs and results using our popular “speed-dating” format. Join us for an evening of networking and learning, dinner included!

Oct 18 - Skills Seminar - Running Effective Meetings
The Skills Seminar Series offers practical training in two-hour sessions. Sessions are designed to give participants knowledge that can be immediately applied in their professional careers and community roles. Any company, nonprofit or community advocate who wishes to enhance the effectiveness of future leaders are also encouraged to enroll in this series. Hear from JCCI's President & CEO, Ben Warner, and Justin Spiller, Chair of Atlantic Circle and member of the United Way Board of Directors to learn the techniques and tools you need to chair or participate in more effective meetings.

Oct 20 - Food for Thought: Conversations That Matter @ SUITE Jacksonville
Small group gatherings, hosted by a member of the executive committee, designed to give participants the opportunity to network and discuss hot topics of the day. Past event topics include:
• Let’s talk about Beer!
• Eating Right
• Jax Sports Scene
• Cooking for Life
• the Code of the Street
• Kidz Foods and Nutrition
• Living Organic

Learn More about JCCI and JCCI Forward or RSVP to a meeting or training.

Junior League New Member/Transfer Landmark Tour with Chevy

The Junior League of Jacksonville kicked off the year with our first ever New Member/Transfer Landmark Tour with Chevy on Saturday, August 27. It was a successful day - collecting enough school supplies to fill eight car trunks! The women presented the supplies to the faculty at Annie R. Morgan Elementary school.

The 65+ women had the opportunity to drive or ride in eight brand new Chevrolets; including the Chevy Volt (Motor Trend Car of the Year which isn’t even available in Jacksonville yet), Equinox, Traverse, Tahoe Hybrid and Cruze. Along the tour they visited Junior League volunteer spots such as Sanctuary on 8th Street and Community Connections.

Check out all the pictures Junior League New Member/Transfer Landmark Tour with Chevy.